Four Steps to Communication as one unit

             

     1.   One person speaks at a time and conveys data to the

          receiver this person is the sender.

     2.   Receiver LISTENS TO DATA and processes the data from

          the sender in the following steps:

          a)   Receive problems as a challenge to overcome as one

               unit.

          b)   Take time to think in an calm controlled manner.

     3.   Receiver brainstorms with sender in following way:

          a)   Express ideas and ways to overcome the challenges

               the team has before it.

          b)   Do not attack each other but use that energy to

               attack the challenge.

          c)   Receiver should repeat the data sent by the sender

               to make sure they concur as a unit.

          d)   Pray together about overcoming the challenge.

     4.   Goto step 1 after being the receiver to change posture

          to sender.

There are no problems in marriage just challanges for your mate

and you to grow into each other as you overcome that challenge.

The key to overcomming the challenges is how much you and your

spouse pray as a unit to God/Jesus about your problems.