Some questions on experiencing energetic orgasm and relationships
Hello Boys and Girls,
I have a few open question, like fields of investigations, and I think I could benefit from a little outside input.
It's about sex, relationship, chakras, energies and love...
It's a bit personal also, but I think I need to tell some elements as it's part of the context and might explain certain things.
Here's the thing: I'm a 40 y.o. man, 10 years of mariage, one child, and a crash! Divorce, friendly but trying as are these things. In the past 2 years I met two woman and sexuality has opened up. These 2 woman have high starseed percentage for sure. They feel energies, have flashes, and so on. I have started experiencing with the first one, a new field of relating. In close contact, my heart chakras opens up and I feel the energy rushing along my spine up to my head.I can have some kind of energy orgasm without physicall contact. In this space, I and my partner feel we 've known each other forever, we feel mostly somewhere else but very here. I have also discovered that - and this may sound strange- I have the capacity to have an energetic orgasm just by touching the other. As if I could make move inside my body an energy point that connects to my partner and that this creates an energetic orgasm. It can be a finger against a hand, or whatever bodily parts. It just can move anywhere. And this can also happen when not in contact, Meaning in different places, using thoughts - but I have not yet investigated that aspect so much.
With the first woman, she said we where TF and that our connections is a proof of it. But I couldn't really be in love with her, as some of the context is not right for me. So I was accused of being the runner - which I was. The intensitiy of the connection did surely made me doubt. But then I had to follow what I felt deeply in me.
Then I met this other woman and again the same connection happened. She was dumbfounded also. We haven't gone "physicall" yet, but energetic orgasm have happened.
So now I'm really...confused! LOL. It seems when two people from the same group meet they can really go high. But it seems it is not a sign of TF. Or? Or I have met two TF in a very short time, which I doubt.
Where I stand now, is I think I have discovered the energetic aspect of "contact", but that it does not mean there should be a relationship. Context needs to be taken into acount. I mean by that that the vertical encounter, the bliss, the love felt, is like encountering a non-body being. Actually the bodily shape of the partner doesn't count as "big, small, this age or that age". It seems all is here. I 've often felt I was in a spaceship with my partner in these moments.
Had I lived that experience once, I would think differently. But this seeming reconducible experience puzzles me now.
I would really appreciate your feedback on this.
Hugs,
Tulim
netdragon
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Re: Some questions on experiencing energetic orgasm and ...
I would agree that doesn't mean there should be a relationship. Connecting on an energy level and being able to get along in a relationship on a physical level are two different things. If you think that being able to have orgasms by sharing energy is a sign you two should be together, you may be in for a sad disappointment. I don't want to say that it can't be a positive relationship, but what I am saying is that it's like eating an apple and then saying you're ready for an orange. They are two different fruits. Do you get the metaphor?
17 April, 2012 - 14:47
K.K.
Joined: Jan 2010
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Hi Tulim,
Sounds to me as if you're experiencing the connection we have when we are in Spirit. I had a similar type of experience when I had essential oils put on my back for relaxation. I actually had an energetic orgasm with the Universe - I actually saw myself out in the Universe experiencing this. It definitely freaked me out but looking back on it now, it was quite awesome.
Karen
17 April, 2012 - 17:19
MountainSong
Joined: Mar 2012
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Re: Some questions on experiencing energetic orgasm and ...
Hi Tulium,
I have the same situation with two people, intense exchange of energies over great distances; I’ve met neither in person. One is energy of great happiness and the other produces mind blowing sexual energy. With other friends I have other more minor versions of it depending what their awareness level is.
It's starting to look like I can exchange various types of energy with anyone I’m emotionally close to or wish to be close too as long as they know how to connect back to me and ‘send’ also.
I’m developing a new theory – at a certain spiritual awareness level we have access to the energy fields/grid and can play in it with other people we are connected too who also have reached a certain point of energy awareness. No ties, no labels like TF or soulmate. Just people who like each other and can play in the energy field together exchanging various expressions of Love. This may even be a future way human can ‘communicate’ in addition to words and empathy. The whole thing just feels like a natural evolution to me at this point.
17 April, 2012 - 19:28
jgrrl
Joined: May 2009
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Yes Mountain, I see a pattern here too.
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It's starting to look like I can exchange various types of energy with anyone I’m emotionally close to or wish to be close too as long as they know how to connect back to me and ‘send’ also.
I’m developing a new theory – at a certain spiritual awareness level we have access to the energy fields/grid and can play in it with other people we are connected too who also have reached a certain point of energy awareness. No ties, no labels like TF or soulmate. Just people who like each other and can play in the energy field together exchanging various expressions of Love. This may even be a future way human can ‘communicate’ in addition to words and empathy. The whole thing just feels like a natural evolution to me at this point.
I agree. Why are so many (presumably unrelated) people having a similar experience on an energetic level with a spiritual component RIGHT NOW?
I only have one person I feel such an amazing connection to but I am open to the possibility this could be more of shift and less of a phenomenon.
And netdragon...I am surprised you are not advocating for a free love fruit bowl with oranges and apples. You seem to be a proponent of having much more sexual freedom while tearing down outdated social conventions like traditional marriages, right?
17 April, 2012 - 19:55
jgrrl
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Re: Some questions on experiencing energetic orgasm and ...
But I do think it takes a "catalyst" (usually one specific person) to set the ball in motion. And for some, that ONE is...significant.
Oh, and I meant to say "flipped on LIKE a light switch...I got all excited and hit the button too fast
18 April, 2012 - 02:09
Vivg
Joined: Dec 2011
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I agree. Why are so many (presumably unrelated) people having a similar experience on an energetic level with a spiritual component RIGHT NOW?
I only have one person I feel such an amazing connection to but I am open to the possibility this could be more of shift and less of a phenomenon.
It's the introduction to being One with all
18 April, 2012 - 02:12
Tulim
Joined: Sep 2010
Posts: 38
Re: Some questions on experiencing energetic orgasm and ...
Thanks to all, this is helpful.
Netdragon: i get the metaphor, yes. That's exactly what I suspected.Thanks.
Yes Karen, something like that. It also freaks me out a bit, and I try to control the energy. I fear i'm gonna explode and dissolve in the universe.LOL
Mountainsong: I'm glad you wrote that post. It's exactly what's in my head these days and what I experience. I don't know about the future of relationship, but experiencing this is interesting.
Jggrl: I've wondered about this catlyst thing. I think I am one, but on the other hand it happens only when the other is responsive. But it could also be that there's no catalyst, just two beings ready to open and that mutualy activate each other.
This question of the catalyst is very important I think.
Thanks to all, this has helped me a lot.
Hugs,
Tulim
18 April, 2012 - 08:31
November_Nymph
Joined: Mar 2011
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In close contact, my heart chakras opens up and I feel the energy rushing along my spine up to my head.I can have some kind of energy orgasm without physicall contact. In this space, I and my partner feel we 've known each other forever, we feel mostly somewhere else but very here. I have also discovered that - and this may sound strange- I have the capacity to have an energetic orgasm just by touching the other. As if I could make move inside my body an energy point that connects to my partner and that this creates an energetic orgasm.
None of this sounds strange to me. At all. This exactly how things go with my TF. The guy who is rejecting and rejecting and rejecting.
When we are in the same room together it's like the temperature just goes up. If we brush hands, like say I hand him a cup of coffee, it's as if I got zapped with electricity that goes all the way up my arm, my spine and in my head and heart. He hugs me and it's as if this massive energy field envelops us. I get it. Just writing this and thinking about those feelings is making my insides contract. I get it.
He's a runner.
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18 April, 2012 - 12:05
Tulim
Joined: Sep 2010
Posts: 38
Re: Some questions on experiencing energetic orgasm and ...
Exactly November_Nymph.
But what I discovered these days is that this experience can be had with more than one person-at least that's what happened to me.
So, I'm starting to consider that these signs are not automatically a sign of being in contact with a TF (although it might be the case). It's certainly a sign of high soul compatibility.
But it might be also a new way to relate to soul partners and not specifically a sign of being in presence with a TF.
I think this should be taken as a possibility, but again, it's a field of investigation for me at the moment.
Hugs,
Tulim
18 April, 2012 - 14:56
MountainSong
Joined: Mar 2012
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Re: Some questions on experiencing energetic orgasm and ...
Tulim,
There are several people I know who for whatever reason have major health issues and a significant loss of energy, they feel barely alive. A friend set up an energy line to me a while back that boosts my energy due to a traumatic event that happened years ago and lowered my life force to a large extent – this energy line he set up returns part of that life force and energy. Once I understood what he did and how, I was able to set them up to a few friends suffering also. We’re all tied together energetically now, it’s rather interesting and we can adjust the flow rate or add things to it such as Healing, cell repair, Peace and calm etc. Just like an IV drip with medications added occasionally, occasionally someone gets ornery and add a sexual boost to the line for amusement. Lol
Anyway, having played with these connections now for several months we’re starting to realize that this could very likely be the wave of the future and most humans will be able to help/support/comfort each other in this way. In other words the bonds of blood, friendships of love, emotional connections etc can be added to with energetic connections also which increases the bond rather viscerally.
In some ways I think this has always existed between other humans we felt close too, but spiritual awareness makes us more aware of the reality of it. When I look back over the years I see where some of these connections have actually existed for years but were not consciously recognized, now my ‘tribe’ and I are Aware of it and can play more with it and consciously add needed types energy to the lines between us.
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